rachel's definitely in the middle of moving. i offered to help. but, like, i don't think people always feel very comfortable accepting someone's offer of moving help. i offer to help a lot, and yet never seem to end up helping. (yeah, other people being uncomfortable, that's got to be the reason.) so i also try to offer, separately, to let people borrow my car (it's a pickup truck). there might be some ambivalence about helping, but there's none whatsoever about borrowing the car. i love driving other people's cars. it's the only time i like driving.